.
What does she really mean by these words?
"I need my space"
Chapter III
Reason:
The
second type, it is pretty obvious that they don't enter into the
relationship because of the guys' brains; either (mostly) he is very
good-looking or it is out of some non-understandable reason like 'he
loved her very much so she couldn't say no', or 'they were very good
friends and he forced her into this', and so on.
The thing about majority of girls is that they do take relationships seriously, and hence, compromising becomes a routine and overlooking flaws a habit. She would constantly have problems over his behavior and believe me she will talk about them with her friends, but never with him. She gives herself reasons like he loves me so much. In this case, a girl never uses this statement in front of her boyfriend, but frequently uses it in front of her friends, and most observantly, in front of a selected group of people she considers as smart, and opens herself to.
Note: It's very simple to join that group of people in her eyes. All you have to do is:
- Always listen to her, without giving any expression except of curious understanding, as if you are minutely studying something.
- Push deeper into her thoughts (another way of saying: invading into her privacy just by asking more questions picked out from her own sentences, so that it seems like it's a part of a conversation initiated by her only)
They say "I need my space", whenever their relationship with their boyfriends go anywhere away from being two lovable teddy-bears i.e. whenever:
- He reminds her that he is dumb.
- She meets a smart guy, and the comparison makes her realize that he's dumb.
- She reads in some story or novel about some character that pretty much reminds her of the image of an ideal man.
- He tries to control her life.
In this case, the girl literally becomes self-assured and would never reveal that she has even the slightest of wants or needs to have a man in her life that is capable of telling her what is right or wrong, or correct her decisions, or guide her in any way.
What does she really mean by these words IV
- They form a very materialistic lifestyle that is almost impossible to change.
- Money is never a factor for them; in fact, they are mostly driven into buying their lovers expensive gifts.
- They believe in love very strongly, quite akin to the fairy tales’ love depiction.
- They form their own notions and logics regarding matters of love and life; and often shower their wisdom over friends by advising them. They are highly emotional about their friends, and rebellious to their enemies.
When do they demand their space?
- Whenever the boyfriends have a problem with their materialistic lifestyle.
- Whenever the boyfriends have a problem with her friends.
- Whenever they have a problem with their logics/ attitude.
Always remember: If you truly love her, then you don’t want to be wandering over these topics. If she hangs out with her friends late in the nights, it’s her lifestyle and friends. But if you are facing a similar problem, then please refer to the chapter 20th century speech. That’s a permanent solution.
The second type in this subdivision is called pseudo- intellectuals. There are majority of girls in the pseudo-intellectual category who become cocky because they have read enough books, or watched many good movies, or score really high in their class, and so on. Their basic attitude is that they are unresponsive towards guidance. They have extracted meanings and views from different writers and books; and reading has given them a confidence and superiority over matters which need a thought. These types of girls are also bold, confident and authoritative by nature. Now, why do they demand space?
- Whenever a guy tells them that their thoughts are wrong or borrowed.
- Whenever a guy argues over a thought, mocks them, or tries to change the definition of their much valued and held notions and precepts.
The fourth type should not be a problem to understand. Such type of girls have random mood swings; at one point they crave for something or someone like it’s the end of the world, and the next moment, if their mood fumbles, they might treat it like garbage or just an ordinary thing. Their need for space totally depends on their mood swings. They would suddenly miss someone so much, or want to be with their boyfriends and taken care of; but it won’t be a surprise if one of such type of girls is out, and is totally ignoring her boyfriend’s calls or messages. Their main intentions are never to ignore or hurt, they are too much driven by their mood swings.
The last type is the type of girls who are pretentious. These types of girls have major personality issues, and have a strong fixation with a word called cool. Their entire lifestyle/ choices/ dressing sense etc changes with the changing definition of cool for them. These are mostly girls who move from small cities to Capitals, Metropolitans, in which the life they believe is happening and cool. They are generally college girls, and very much influenced by the ideas from Sitcoms, of being friends in a group and hanging out, and similar stuff. When do they demand space? Whenever their boyfriends try to control their lives, and are against the concept of cool (unknowingly) or whenever they find that their boyfriend is not cool.
"I need my space"
Chapter III
Reason:
To
be in a relationship with such a girl is a complicated thing, as they
demand a perfect understanding of their problems and a guy they don't
want just because he is a perfectly good object to show off. It won’t
matter if a guy does very cute stuff or looks like a Greek God or loves
her like a mythical hero; she would any-day prefer a normal average
looking guy who can just tell her about her problems when she hasn't
even revealed them, or could figure out what she is feeling inside or
what she's thinking about.
Now, when they haven't met such a guy and are in a relationship; such type of girls demands their space.
Now, when they haven't met such a guy and are in a relationship; such type of girls demands their space.
The thing about majority of girls is that they do take relationships seriously, and hence, compromising becomes a routine and overlooking flaws a habit. She would constantly have problems over his behavior and believe me she will talk about them with her friends, but never with him. She gives herself reasons like he loves me so much. In this case, a girl never uses this statement in front of her boyfriend, but frequently uses it in front of her friends, and most observantly, in front of a selected group of people she considers as smart, and opens herself to.
Note: It's very simple to join that group of people in her eyes. All you have to do is:
- Always listen to her, without giving any expression except of curious understanding, as if you are minutely studying something.
- Push deeper into her thoughts (another way of saying: invading into her privacy just by asking more questions picked out from her own sentences, so that it seems like it's a part of a conversation initiated by her only)
They say "I need my space", whenever their relationship with their boyfriends go anywhere away from being two lovable teddy-bears i.e. whenever:
- He reminds her that he is dumb.
- She meets a smart guy, and the comparison makes her realize that he's dumb.
- She reads in some story or novel about some character that pretty much reminds her of the image of an ideal man.
- He tries to control her life.
In this case, the girl literally becomes self-assured and would never reveal that she has even the slightest of wants or needs to have a man in her life that is capable of telling her what is right or wrong, or correct her decisions, or guide her in any way.
What does she really mean by these words IV
Chapter IV
The
third type may be divided into two more subdivisions. The first in this
subdivision is the snobbish, arrogant, stubborn, self-obsessed type,
generally. This type majorly includes highly pampered girls who have
been treated like princesses all their lives. And because of their
lavish and materialistic lifestyle, they form conclusions regarding life
which are immature, childish, fairy-tale like, and self centered. Why
are they overly bold and confident, and authoritative? It is because
since childhood, they have mostly received acceptance and hardly been
suppressed. And also because of this protection from the harsh truths of
life, their fairy tale concepts almost
transform into something they maintain. Things that happen because of this:
transform into something they maintain. Things that happen because of this:
- They form a very materialistic lifestyle that is almost impossible to change.
- Money is never a factor for them; in fact, they are mostly driven into buying their lovers expensive gifts.
- They believe in love very strongly, quite akin to the fairy tales’ love depiction.
- They form their own notions and logics regarding matters of love and life; and often shower their wisdom over friends by advising them. They are highly emotional about their friends, and rebellious to their enemies.
When do they demand their space?
- Whenever the boyfriends have a problem with their materialistic lifestyle.
- Whenever the boyfriends have a problem with her friends.
- Whenever they have a problem with their logics/ attitude.
Always remember: If you truly love her, then you don’t want to be wandering over these topics. If she hangs out with her friends late in the nights, it’s her lifestyle and friends. But if you are facing a similar problem, then please refer to the chapter 20th century speech. That’s a permanent solution.
The second type in this subdivision is called pseudo- intellectuals. There are majority of girls in the pseudo-intellectual category who become cocky because they have read enough books, or watched many good movies, or score really high in their class, and so on. Their basic attitude is that they are unresponsive towards guidance. They have extracted meanings and views from different writers and books; and reading has given them a confidence and superiority over matters which need a thought. These types of girls are also bold, confident and authoritative by nature. Now, why do they demand space?
- Whenever a guy tells them that their thoughts are wrong or borrowed.
- Whenever a guy argues over a thought, mocks them, or tries to change the definition of their much valued and held notions and precepts.
The fourth type should not be a problem to understand. Such type of girls have random mood swings; at one point they crave for something or someone like it’s the end of the world, and the next moment, if their mood fumbles, they might treat it like garbage or just an ordinary thing. Their need for space totally depends on their mood swings. They would suddenly miss someone so much, or want to be with their boyfriends and taken care of; but it won’t be a surprise if one of such type of girls is out, and is totally ignoring her boyfriend’s calls or messages. Their main intentions are never to ignore or hurt, they are too much driven by their mood swings.
The last type is the type of girls who are pretentious. These types of girls have major personality issues, and have a strong fixation with a word called cool. Their entire lifestyle/ choices/ dressing sense etc changes with the changing definition of cool for them. These are mostly girls who move from small cities to Capitals, Metropolitans, in which the life they believe is happening and cool. They are generally college girls, and very much influenced by the ideas from Sitcoms, of being friends in a group and hanging out, and similar stuff. When do they demand space? Whenever their boyfriends try to control their lives, and are against the concept of cool (unknowingly) or whenever they find that their boyfriend is not cool.
