What does a younger girl need?
Reading from the post - What do girls want!, we derive that girls below 18, look for the idea of love. They crave for attention, and look for guys with something extraordinary going on with them.
Things you should do and not do:
- Stop treating them like kids. Treat her equally.
If you want to woo her, give her the proper space and respect she demands; and if it isn't your heart, get it in your mind because that is the only way you will climb the first stairs. Now this doesn't mean don't advise her or suggest her stuff. Of course she knows that you are older to her. But the point is, share it from the point of view of your experiences rather than your wisdom you have acquired throughout your time in this world.
- Indirectly show her that it is cool to have relationships with such broad age difference.
You can take the example of Keats (the famous English Poet) and his wife Fanny Brawne. He fell in love with her when he was 22 or 23, and wrote her lover letters when she was just 14 or 15. And later, they even got married, though unfortunately Keats died at the age of 25 (leave that part).
- If she is juvenile, then of course she is gullible.
Use the gifts of your experience as much as you can, and understand one fact - She strongly believes in True love and Pure Love. Show her that, you will have her in your life faster than anything.
- Don't hesitate in showing all your aces.
Women at a certain age, get really choosy, and accomplishments of sorts matter. For example: some women may not find you being a lead guitarist irresistibly charming, but would prefer bar-tending a sport much dexterous in skill. What I mean is, with a younger girl, with an inexperienced girl, any achievement is a victory.
You can even blab about your recent success in the office game; just keep portraying through examples that you are a winner.
-Always have topics.
If she is younger, she is definitely to have other male contenders of her age, who would mind your interruption in their game. So, in a sort, it does become a fight of certain age-groups, and you have to win it. The advantage is, they will always be kids/ punks in front of your eyes. So they won't scare you. All you need to make sure is, you are entertaining enough;. if you score on that, the girl is on your side, and they lose.
Reading from the post - What do girls want!, we derive that girls below 18, look for the idea of love. They crave for attention, and look for guys with something extraordinary going on with them.
Things you should do and not do:
- Stop treating them like kids. Treat her equally.
If you want to woo her, give her the proper space and respect she demands; and if it isn't your heart, get it in your mind because that is the only way you will climb the first stairs. Now this doesn't mean don't advise her or suggest her stuff. Of course she knows that you are older to her. But the point is, share it from the point of view of your experiences rather than your wisdom you have acquired throughout your time in this world.
- Indirectly show her that it is cool to have relationships with such broad age difference.
You can take the example of Keats (the famous English Poet) and his wife Fanny Brawne. He fell in love with her when he was 22 or 23, and wrote her lover letters when she was just 14 or 15. And later, they even got married, though unfortunately Keats died at the age of 25 (leave that part). - If she is juvenile, then of course she is gullible.
Use the gifts of your experience as much as you can, and understand one fact - She strongly believes in True love and Pure Love. Show her that, you will have her in your life faster than anything.
- Don't hesitate in showing all your aces.
Women at a certain age, get really choosy, and accomplishments of sorts matter. For example: some women may not find you being a lead guitarist irresistibly charming, but would prefer bar-tending a sport much dexterous in skill. What I mean is, with a younger girl, with an inexperienced girl, any achievement is a victory.
You can even blab about your recent success in the office game; just keep portraying through examples that you are a winner.
-Always have topics.
If she is younger, she is definitely to have other male contenders of her age, who would mind your interruption in their game. So, in a sort, it does become a fight of certain age-groups, and you have to win it. The advantage is, they will always be kids/ punks in front of your eyes. So they won't scare you. All you need to make sure is, you are entertaining enough;. if you score on that, the girl is on your side, and they lose.
