This is a very general problem with guys now! So before telling you the solutions, I want to tell you where you made your mistake.Every guy needs to understand some nonsensical statements of girls:
- We are just friends/ I always took as a friend and nothing more/ I never expected this from you/ blahblah.
All these types of statements are plain statements without any meanings, and therefore, they are blahblahblah.
Always remember: If you had gotten so close that she considered you a good friend, then you had already completed 70 % of your wooing. The mistake that you made was you thought that 70 % was 100 %.
You need to know that girls change their minds very easily and constantly, at one point, they will say they want to be single, but in just another day, they will be seeing someone. You have to use this as your power.
Things you do:
- You never listen to her resolutions.
- You don't listen to whatever she is saying her perfect boy is going to be.
- You never listen to her proper way of doing things or what not she wants from life.
- And apply this to everything she is saying.
Everything can be changed with the proper application of words and its usage. All you need to do is look for the right method to turn it around. The biggest mistakes of guys is when they actually start following what a girl tells her that she wants from relationship/ life. When you are doing that, you are digging your own grave.
What do you do now?
- The first step of yours and the basic need of time demands you to be back in her life right now. Think how?
Think as many ways as you can, don't care if you are being evil in your ways. If a simple apology can do the trick, then go right away. But being rejected once always reduces the intensity of relationship.
